- How much to we protect our empires? Do we really think all kids can achieve and learn to high standards?
- Do we think "high standards" means something different for different kids?
- Have we really done all we can to implement our programs with high fidelity?
- Do we really make effective use of the time we are expected to be "at work"?
- How do we feel about the amount of time it might take to do "supplemental work"? Should we be accountable to the time it takes or the task and its outcomes?
- What if our sense of success was linked to a staff survey? Would we, could we embrace success that way?
- State Views and Ask Genuine Questions.
- Share All Relevant Information. Do we present information we have clearly? Do we discount what we don't like?
- Use Specific Examples and Agree on What Important Words Mean. "When you give specific examples, name people, places, things, events, and report on what people said and did." Accountability seems an important aspect but shouldn't be used as a weapon. Are we afraid of that? I like that discussions about how or why something didn't happen could follow. Accountability can be used as a way to showing respect for our work and each other.
- Explain Reasoning and Intent. Are the reasons we do things at school clearly stated? Are our intents clearly related to a 'clear and shared focus'? Do we keep too much private? I think we have many private agendas at work. We need to have a more 'public face' for our organization.
- Focus on Interests, Not Positions. Hmm. We generate solutions that are based on our own needs. It's presumptuous to expect that a solution will work for others until their interests are known.
- Identify interests
- Clarify and agree on interests
- Generate potential solutions that meet the interests.
- Select a solution and implement it
- Test Assumptions and Inferences. Work toward transparency.
- Jointly Design Next Steps. Involving all with informed choices. Avoid unilateral decision making. Good questioning and honest and open sharing of positions and interests makes better sense. Doesn't mean the decision has to be consensus.
- Discuss Undiscussable Issues. Trying to avoid embarrassing or provoking someone? Should be discussed IN the team. Many people overestimate the risk in raising a sensitive issue. There are negatives in NOT raising the sensitive issue. Avoiding such an issue does not show compassion for the impact. Is emotionally challenging for those involved.
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